Swinger Party Guide

Inviting the right people to your swinger’s party is crucial if you want everyone to have a good time. You may have swinger friends that are great to hang out with, but may not be a good fit for your parties. Here are a couple tips to ensure that you are inviting people who will add value to the event.

Know Their Kinks

If you are interested in having a party where everyone plays with everyone, inviting swingers who tend to be voyeurs may not go over well. This doesn’t mean you can’t have a great time with voyeurs present, they just may not be right for your shindig. Before you start inviting people make sure you know what they are in to so you know if the event will go over like you hope.

Not Always Friends

Something else to consider is that while you may swing with a certain group of people, those within that group may not be friends with everyone else. Swingers’ communities are full of complex relationships. Be sure everyone knows who you plan in inviting. This way if there is an issue they can tell you before the event so you can sort it out. You don’t want a small party go downhill because two people have issues with one another.

Know Them Beforehand

Unless you are allowing the people you invite to bring their own guests, make sure you know everyone you invite. It may be tempting to answer adverts in swinger’s forums, but if you don’t know most of the people you invite you may be setting yourself up for a bad night. If you are going to look at ads, make sure the swingers party is far enough way that you can meet up with the couple a few times to get to know them before you consider inviting them.

Planning on playing adult games is a great way to get a crowd in the mood for more sexual activities. Setting up these games doesn’t require a lot of legwork, and you can get most of what you need for free or very cheap. If you are planning an adult themed party, here are just a few game ideas that will lead to a raunchy evening.

Truth or Dare

This age old party game is still a favorite among adults. To spice things up, use cards that you print beforehand with dirty questions and raunchy dares. As each player takes a turn, they must pull a card from the pile and answer or perform the task on the card. This way you can control how raunchy you want to make it, and you don’t have to come up with ideas on the fly. To be safe, have a couple of ‘pass’ cards for each player.

Spin the Bottle

Another oldie but goodie is spin the bottle which can be spiced up for an adult party. Instead of kissing, you can go a step further. Having ideas like fondling, giving head, or licking whip cream off someone’s chest are all good ideas to step up the old fashioned game making it more adult in nature.

Strip Games

Almost any card or board game can be used for a fun strip game. When a player loses a turn or plays a bad hand, they have to remove an article of clothing. You can have scarves and hats available for people who came dressed in very little.

If you are planning a swinger’s party, there are some things you should make available to your guests. This helps keep everyone comfortable, as well as safe. Here are just a few things you should consider offering at your next swingers event.

Condoms and Lube

Condoms and lube that are easily available will be important. You can find a variety of different types of condoms for everyone at most adult sex shops. This way you can have a variety on hand. You can also find packets of lube that are packaged individually. This will keep things more sanitary and easier to grab when they are needed.

Towels and Bathroom Essentials

Having plenty of clean towels available will help keep everything clean and sanitary. You can pick up extra towels at thrift stores or discount stores and launder them beforehand. Have plenty of soaps available too. Individual bottles of mouthwash and travel sized toothbrushes and paste will also be appreciated.

Hampers and Trash Cans

You want to have trash cans with good plastic liners throughout the house. This way condoms will get tossed in the trash instead of flushed down the toilet. Lube packets will also be disposed of more easily. If you place a few small trash cans in each room your guests won’t have go hunting for a trash receptacle. If you are going to allow smoking indoors, have plenty of ashtrays available too. Having hampers placed throughout the home will make it easier for people to toss dirty towels. This way they aren’t dragging contaminated towels all over the house with them.