Music can affect a person’s mood. When you place certain types of music, it can create different feelings. At a swingers party, the wrong type of music can put people out of a sexual mood. To avoid this, there are certain types of music you can use that will enhance the sexuality of the group. Here are a few things to consider.
Sensual Music
As a general rule of thumb, sensual music is always a good choice. Music from groups like Enigma or other ambient groups is a great choice. If you have separate areas set up, this type of music does really well in smaller playrooms where only a few people are going to be playing. This will create an atmosphere of sexual feelings.
High Energy Music
If you are going to have a dance area, or an area large enough for many people to play, high energy music is your best bet. This will get everyone’s adrenaline flowing and create an atmosphere where people are motivated to move around. Look for techno music, house music remixes, and club music for this type of situation.
Darker Music
If you are going to have some kind of dungeon set up, you want to find some darker music. Metal and electronic music work well for a dungeon set up. This will create the mood that is popular in BDSM and other dungeon play. It won’t take away from the activities. Just make sure the music isn’t blaring. It should be loud enough for everyone to hear, but not overpower people when they talk. You need it to be low enough for people to hear each other’s safe words if needed.
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Planning on playing adult games is a great way to get a crowd in the mood for more sexual activities. Setting up these games doesn’t require a lot of legwork, and you can get most of what you need for free or very cheap. If you are planning an adult themed party, here are just a few game ideas that will lead to a raunchy evening.
Truth or Dare
This age old party game is still a favorite among adults. To spice things up, use cards that you print beforehand with dirty questions and raunchy dares. As each player takes a turn, they must pull a card from the pile and answer or perform the task on the card. This way you can control how raunchy you want to make it, and you don’t have to come up with ideas on the fly. To be safe, have a couple of ‘pass’ cards for each player.
Spin the Bottle
Another oldie but goodie is spin the bottle which can be spiced up for an adult party. Instead of kissing, you can go a step further. Having ideas like fondling, giving head, or licking whip cream off someone’s chest are all good ideas to step up the old fashioned game making it more adult in nature.
Strip Games
Almost any card or board game can be used for a fun strip game. When a player loses a turn or plays a bad hand, they have to remove an article of clothing. You can have scarves and hats available for people who came dressed in very little.
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Hosting a private swinger’s party can be a lot of fun. With a private party you can choose who you want to invite and the types of activities that you will allow. If you plan on hosting a swinger’s party in your own home, you should do some basic prep work beforehand.
Bedrooms
You want to have a few rooms set up for different types of play activity. You can designate a larger bedroom as an open playroom. This will be a good place for several couples to get together and play or watch each other. You should have a couple areas set aside for private play as well. This way couples who don’t want to be watched or participate openly with others will have a place to go. If you have fetishists attending, having a fetish room set up isn’t a bad idea either.
Bathrooms
You want to be sure you have bathrooms that are open at all times. You may want to designate one as a ‘sex free’ zone. This way, people can go in and lock the door behind them to clean up or get ready. In the bathrooms you should have plenty of individual soaps, toothbrushes and paste, powders, and other items needed to clean up. Wet wipes are a good idea.
Extras
Other than setting up the rooms, you want to have plenty of other items available. Condoms and individual packets of lube in all rooms will be appreciated. You also want to have clean towels available in several areas. Set up some hampers for people to toss their dirty towels. A refreshments area is a good idea as well. This will give your guests an area to grab drinks and snacks, and socialize.
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